I arranged a few things on our terrace in front of the living room window where Nadine’s bed is placed. When I open the curtains and turn her to her right hand side, the picture above is more or less what she’s looking at. She is doing this right now while I’m writing these words and prepares to start into another day.
Two days ago, she was hardly adressable and unable to speak. This started to improve yesterday when we had a few visitors and it became even better this morning. She competely gets what I’m telling her, she is responding and she also comes up with questions or things on her own. First thing she told me this morning was that she doesn’t want to die.
I received many e-mails with wishes and offers to help and I’m very thankful for that. Having visitors yesterday evening seemed to have brought some life back to Nadine. I asked her if she liked it and she clearly said yes. As it Is hard for me to talk to her the whole day long – I’m running out of topics – I think it’s a good thing for her to get some stimuli from the outside.
With her being unable to play a complete part in conversation, you should come up with some idea of entertainment: tell her a story, read something to her, play her a few songs or make music by your own , sing something, … Another idea is that you come in pairs or groups and talk amongst each other so she can listen and join in at times. In order to coordinate this, please use my e-mail or landline phone number given on the contact site of this blog.
Many of you told me about their relation with and feelings towards Nadine by e-mail. I want to encourage you once again to go public and post it ont the blog so that everybody can take part. Remember that these e-mails will be lost some day while the blog can be conserved forever. You can use the comment function or the wall of wishes for small messages but I also want you to offer to do your own posts: just write a text with one of the shared experiences you had with Nadine, tell us about your special relation to her, express your feelings for her or come up with an homage if you like to. Send it to me by e-mail and I will put it online under your name. It would be nice if you could send a picture or a link to a suitable song too. Please do it, Nadine likes the idea very much!
